Quick Takes Friday

Joining Jen at Conversion Diary for Quick Takes Friday!
It turns out that this week's Takes are not really all so Quick. Some are actually quite long. Sorry!

~ 1 ~
I have no idea what to get my husband for Christmas. I never have any ideas. He is the most frugal person in the universe, never buys anything for himself, and regularly returns the gifts I choose (even an IPod, a while back). I'm resorting to the strategy of giving him several gifts that are so small, they are not worth the trouble of returning. Sad, isn't it?

But seriously--not to be too overly cynical here--most adults don't really need Christmas gifts, do they? Bill and I are always fixated on getting each other things we need--is this the right strategy? After all, there is an entire genre of retail establishments--Sharper Image, Brookstone, Hammacher Schlemmer, practically everything in that SkyMall magazine in your seatback pocket--that sell absolutely nothing that anyone would ever need. These stores exist, I believe, because no one really has any good idea what to get their husband for Christmas.

~ 2 ~
I keep re-learning the ever-shocking concept that when I eat healthy food, I feel good, and when I eat junk, I feel like junk. Amazing corollary, that. In the former category, I can't wait to try this recipe.

~ 3 ~
I think this is WWD's best school year ever. He loves school; he's appropriately challenged which in turn makes him highly motivated; he's having a great time with his friends; he's got great grades; and he's doing a really good job of managing his schoolwork independently, even with a really busy extracurricular schedule). I am so thrilled--this is finally, really, truly where WWD belongs. (For now, anyway.)

~ 4 ~
I realized all that stuff about WWD a week or so ago when I was in a conference with both of KLD's teachers, about her math. We were talking about the school's math curriculum, discussing how it transferred into middle school, and I was a bit embarrassed to admit that I hadn't laid eyes on one single scrap of math work from WWD this whole school year. He made an A, so I guess that's okay, right?

KLD, on the other hand, is slogging through the harrowing nightmare that is this 4th grade math curriculum. What a mess! The information seems to be presented in quite a roundabout way--several different methods to solve each type of problem, a requirement to "write to explain" in words how you got your answers, and lots and lots of estimating answers before working the actual problem.

The faculty assures us that this is the latest thinking in how to teach math, but all I see is my daughter, who has always loved math best of all, starting to struggle with it for the first time, and taking all evening to complete her homework because the book is so hard to follow.

I haven't made up my mind what to do about this--I can always just supplement her math at home with Singapore, but my real concern is that this gobbledygook math is going to ruin her math confidence and burn her out on math. In my own experience, this can be a big deal. I wish I could opt her out of the school math, and teach her at home. If the public schoolers can opt out of sex ed, don't you think I should be able to opt my daughter out of math? We'll see, I suppose. But in the meantime...got any advice?

~ 5 ~
My beautiful budding musicians have been filling my house--and the town, a little bit--with the sounds of Christmas! Yesterday morning was the school concert, featuring MRD on clarinet and both MRD and KLD on piano, along with their friends. Last weekend WWD joined them for was their quite-festive piano recital. And MRD both sang a solo and played her clarinet in the school Christmas pageant this week. I am so proud of their hard work on their music--and so glad that they are enjoying it so much!

~ 6 ~
On a much more somber note, as I'm sitting down to write my Christmas cards this year, I've realized that my list is shorter than last year by 4 people who have died in 2010. (That doesn't even include Bill's friend Jim, who died tragically in his forties last January.) Unbelievable. What a year--I suppose I'm ready to put 2010 in the past! May God bless our dear ones and grant them eternal rest.

~ 7 ~
You know what? Bill's job being eliminated last August was--no kidding--the best thing that could have happened. He is like a whole different person without that nasty job from H-E-doublehockeysticks, and now I have my husband back. He is (mostly) happy, relaxed, enjoying the kids, and we are having fun hanging out while the kids are at school. Too much fun...as in, we can't keep this up forever. At least one of us has got to start bringing in some cash pretty soon, methinks!

One more delicious week until Christmas!! Enjoy!!
And go see Jen for everyone else's great Quick Takes posts!